Facing divorce or family law challenges can be overwhelming. Anxiety, uncertainty, and emotional stress can cloud judgment, making it difficult to focus on what’s best for you and your family. But you don’t have to navigate this alone.

At Bennett Vernier, PLLC, we provide clarity, legal expertise, and unwavering dedication to every client. Whether you’re dealing with child custody, adoption, guardianship, or asset division, our experienced Oklahoma family law attorneys will guide you through the legal process, helping you make informed decisions that protect your rights and future.

Our Approach: Focused on Results

Our process is designed to:

✔ Save you money by streamlining legal proceedings.
✔ Achieve the best possible outcome tailored to your needs.
✔ Resolve matters efficiently so you can move forward with confidence.

From negotiation and mediation to litigation when necessary, we are committed to securing the best results for you and your family.

Do I Need a Divorce Lawyer in Oklahoma?

While it is possible to represent yourself in a divorce, there are significant risks. Without the guidance of an experienced Oklahoma divorce attorney, you may:

🚫 Overlook key financial or custody details.
🚫 Agree to unfavorable terms that harm your long-term interests.
🚫 Be at a disadvantage if your spouse has strong legal representation.

📌 Bottom Line: Seeking legal counsel ensures that your rights are protected, your assets are fairly divided, and that custody, support, and visitation agreements align with your best interests.

Understanding the Oklahoma Divorce Process

Oklahoma allows for both fault-based and no-fault divorce filings. While most couples file for a no-fault divorce (based on incompatibility), you may choose a fault-based divorce under specific grounds, including:

✔ Adultery
✔ Abandonment (for at least one year)
✔ Extreme cruelty
✔ Felony conviction & imprisonment
✔ Habitual drunkenness or substance abuse
✔ Fraudulent marriage contract
✔ Insanity (for at least five years)
✔ Gross neglect of duty

Residency Requirements for Divorce in Oklahoma

Before filing for divorce, you must meet the following requirements:
✔ At least one spouse must have lived in Oklahoma for six months.
✔ You must file in the county where either spouse has lived for at least 30 days.

Step-by-Step Overview of the Oklahoma Divorce Process

1️⃣ Filing the Petition – One spouse (Petitioner) files a Petition for Dissolution of Marriage in the appropriate county court.
2️⃣ Serving the Other Spouse – The other spouse (Respondent) is served with divorce papers, a Summons, and an Automatic Temporary Injunction, preventing changes to assets or custody arrangements.
3️⃣ Responding to the Petition – The Respondent has 20 days to file an Answer or a Counter-Petition.
4️⃣ Temporary Orders – Courts may issue temporary custody, support, and financial orders while the case is pending.
5️⃣ Discovery Process – Both parties exchange financial and custody-related documents to ensure full transparency.
6️⃣ Settlement or Mediation – Many cases resolve through negotiation or mediation to avoid trial.
7️⃣ Trial (if necessary) – If no agreement is reached, a judge hears the case and issues a final ruling.
8️⃣ Final Divorce Decree – The judge signs the final decree, legally ending the marriage and outlining custody, asset division, child support, and spousal support terms.

💡 Fact: Divorce trials in Oklahoma can last from one day to a full week, depending on the complexity of the case.

What Is "Discovery" in Divorce?

The discovery process is crucial in determining:

✔ Each spouse’s financial status (income, debts, and assets).
✔ Custody and parenting capabilities.
✔ Evidence supporting fault-based divorce claims (if applicable).

Types of Discovery Tools Used:

✔ Interrogatories – Written questions that the other party must answer under oath.
✔ Requests for Documents – Financial records, bank statements, tax returns, and property records.
✔ Depositions – Sworn, out-of-court testimony recorded for legal use.

💡 Why It Matters: Thorough discovery ensures that all assets are accounted for, preventing hidden financial manipulation during divorce proceedings.

Key Issues in an Oklahoma Divorce

1️⃣ Division of Assets & Debts

Oklahoma follows equitable distribution laws, meaning property and debts are divided fairly—but not necessarily equally. Courts consider:

✔ Each spouse’s financial contributions to the marriage.
✔ The length of the marriage.
✔ Who will have primary custody of children.
✔ Whether one spouse is financially dependent on the other.

2️⃣ Child Custody & Support

Custody is determined based on the child’s best interests. Factors include:

✔ Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home.
✔ Emotional bonds between the child and each parent.
✔ History of domestic violence, neglect, or substance abuse.

📌 Fact: Non-custodial parents are typically granted regular visitation rights, unless proven harmful to the child.

3️⃣ Spousal Support (Alimony)

Alimony may be awarded based on:

✔ One spouse’s financial need.
✔ The other spouse’s ability to pay.
✔ The length of the marriage and contributions made during it.

💡 Pro Tip: Courts prefer temporary alimony, but long-term support may be awarded in cases involving major financial disparity.

Protecting Your Assets During Divorce

Divorce can pose significant financial risks, especially if:

🚫 One spouse attempts to hide assets.
🚫 There is business ownership or high-net-worth property involved.
🚫 The divorce is driven by revenge or financial control tactics.

✔ Our Approach to Asset Protection:

• Conducting in-depth financial analysis to uncover hidden assets.

• Utilizing forensic accountants when necessary.

• Negotiating fair property settlements that protect your financial future.

💡 Pro Tip: Never rush into a settlement out of guilt or pressure—our attorneys ensure your best interests come first.

Take Control of Your Future – Contact an Experienced Oklahoma Divorce Lawyer

Whether you are facing divorce, child custody disputes, or financial concerns, having a dedicated legal team can make all the difference.

📞 Call (405) 456-0404 today to schedule a confidential consultation with an experienced Oklahoma family law attorney.

💼 Protect your rights, your assets, and your future. Contact Bennett Vernier, PLLC today.