What Is a Joint Parenting Plan in Oklahoma?
By Travis Vernier, Esq. – Bennett Vernier, PLLC
Creating a joint parenting plan is a critical step in Oklahoma divorces involving minor children. When parents seek joint custody, the court requires a detailed parenting plan that outlines how both parents will share responsibilities, decision-making, and time with their child.
A well-structured parenting plan helps ensure stability for the child while minimizing conflicts between parents. Here’s what you need to know about Oklahoma’s parenting plan requirements.
What Is a Parenting Plan?
A parenting plan is a court-required document that outlines custody arrangements, visitation schedules, and parental responsibilities. Parents can either:
✔ Work together to submit one agreed-upon plan, or
✔ Each submit their own proposed plan for the judge to review.
📌 Key Elements of a Parenting Plan:
Custody arrangement (joint or sole custody).
Parenting time schedule (including holidays and vacations).
Child support obligations.
Medical and dental care responsibilities.
Education decisions and school arrangements.
Extracurricular activities (transportation, costs, and logistics).
A family court judge reviews the submitted parenting plan(s) and determines what is in the child’s best interests. The judge can approve, modify, or reject the plan if they believe joint custody is not suitable for the child.
How Courts Evaluate Custody and Parenting Plans
Oklahoma family courts encourage both parents to be actively involved in their child’s life. When determining custody, the judge considers factors such as:
✔ Each parent’s willingness to co-parent and facilitate contact with the other parent.
✔ The child’s relationship with each parent.
✔ Each parent’s ability to provide a stable home environment.
✔ Any history of abuse, neglect, or substance abuse.
💡 Fact: If one parent appears unwilling to cooperate or frequently interferes with the child’s relationship with the other parent, the court may favor the more cooperative parent in custody decisions.
The Parenting Plan Conference (PPC)
As part of the divorce process, parents must attend a Parenting Plan Conference (PPC). This early-stage court proceeding helps establish:
✔ Temporary custody and visitation schedules.
✔ Child support calculations.
✔ Any additional temporary orders needed during the divorce process.
📌 What to Expect at the PPC:
The conference is overseen by a court referee.
Parents are encouraged to reach an agreement to avoid a formal hearing.
If no agreement is reached, the court schedules a hearing before a judge.
Mandatory Parenting Class: Helping Children Cope with Divorce
In Tulsa County, divorcing parents must complete a Helping Children Cope with Divorce class. This program helps parents:
✔ Understand how divorce affects children emotionally and mentally.
✔ Develop co-parenting strategies that reduce conflict.
✔ Recognize signs of distress in children.
✔ Improve communication with their child about the divorce.
💡 Key Topics Covered in the Class:
Effective parenting skills during and after divorce.
Managing conflict and facilitating visitation.
Recognizing and supporting children’s emotional needs.
Financial planning for post-divorce obligations.
Completing this class is essential for ensuring that both parents are equipped to handle the challenges of co-parenting while prioritizing their child’s well-being.
The Court’s Goal: Encouraging Cooperation
Oklahoma courts strongly encourage parents to work together to minimize disruptions in the child’s life. A well-prepared parenting plan can:
✔ Reduce the likelihood of legal disputes.
✔ Establish clear expectations for both parents.
✔ Help children adjust more smoothly to post-divorce life.
Need Help Creating a Parenting Plan? Contact an Experienced Family Law Attorney
If you have questions about parenting plans, custody, or co-parenting arrangements, it’s essential to get legal guidance to ensure your parental rights are protected.
📞 Call (405) 456-0404 today to schedule a confidential consultation with an experienced Oklahoma family law attorney.
💼 Make informed decisions that protect your child’s best interests. Contact Bennett Vernier, PLLC today.
