Settlement Negotiations and Mediation in Oklahoma Divorce

By Travis Vernier, Esq.

Divorce cases in Oklahoma, often involve contested issues such as child custody, child and spousal support, and the division of marital property. These matters must be resolved either through settlement negotiations, mediation, or litigation at a hearing or trial. While court intervention may be necessary in some cases, settlement and mediation can provide a more cost-effective and efficient resolution.

Settlement in Oklahoma Divorces

Reaching a settlement is essential for finalizing a divorce—the only question is who will make the decisions. If you and your spouse can mutually resolve disputes, you maintain greater control over the outcome, rather than leaving these important decisions to a judge.

Settlement negotiations are a key tool in resolving divorce issues. However, negotiating directly with your spouse can be challenging due to the emotional nature of divorce. That’s why it is often best to have your attorney handle these discussions.

Your attorney can meet with your spouse or their legal counsel to explore possible resolutions. While compromise is often necessary—meaning neither party may get everything they want—resolving issues early can significantly reduce legal fees, stress, and the time spent in court.

If settlement discussions fail, a judge will make the final determinations. Litigation requires attorney preparation, court appearances, and additional costs. Typically, settlement negotiations occur after an exchange of financial and case-related information, either through temporary court orders or the discovery process, ensuring both parties are well-informed before making decisions.

Mediation in Oklahoma Divorces

Mediation is a highly effective tool for resolving outstanding divorce issues, streamlining the process, and reducing legal fees. In mediation, both spouses select a neutral mediator—a professional well-versed in family law—to facilitate discussions and help them reach agreements.

Unlike arbitration or a trial, a mediator does not decide who is right or wrong. Instead, they guide the parties toward a mutually acceptable resolution, making mediation a structured approach to settlement.

Mediation is particularly beneficial when spouses are not far apart in their positions but struggle to reach an agreement. However, for mediation to be successful, both parties must have sufficient case information, typically obtained through discovery, to make informed decisions.

Your attorney will prepare a mediation brief, attend the session with you, and help track settlement offers and counteroffers. Every issue resolved through mediation saves time and money, reducing the stress and expense of litigation.

Strategy Session with a Oklahoma City Family Law Attorney

If you are facing a divorce, legal guidance is critical. At Bennett Vernier, we offer an initial strategy session with an experienced Oklahoma City family law attorney to discuss your options.

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